Hi friend!
I was listening to an episode of the Acquired Podcast (while eating some nice ecuadorian food), where the hosts talked with Dara Khosrowshahi, who is the current CEO of Uber.
During the interview, Ben Gilbert (one of the hosts) asked Dara what advice he would give to young people.
And I think Daraβs answer was incredible.
I immediately stopped eating (thatβs the only bad part of all this) and started to think deeply about that idea and its implications.
I transcribed the nugget and in todayβs letter Iβm sharing it with you!
π€ Doers
π‘Nugget
π Dara Khosrowshahi:
I always tell people that the most common mistake that I see in young people is that they overplan their career.
Likeβ¦ βI want to do Xβ or βI want to be Vice Presidentβ or βI want to make so much money by a certain timeβ.
And when you overplan your career, there's this human bias β which is to look for signal that agrees with the plan that you have and ignore everything else that doesn't agree with it.
Here Dara is talking about the Confirmation Bias. We have a tendency to have sort of a "vision tunnel", where we (almost) only pay attention to the things that are strictly relevant to our current plan. Therefore, we miss out on good opportunities just because they lay outside the domain of our initial plan...
On top of the Confirmation Bias, I can also see how the Commitment and Consistency Bias would play a significant role. We have a natural tendency to be consistent with adopted ideas, actions and commitments. Therefore, when we commit to a goal (in this case, to a specific career path), we trigger a tendency to be consistent with it, and therefore we will ignore things that would make us inconsistent with that goal. As you can see, this bias puts us too in a sort of tunnel vision or straitjacket thinking!
This is why people say that if you only focus on one thing, the universe will "conspire" to help you achieve that thing. But really all that is going on is that you are triggering these strong human biases, which will definitely help you achieve that thing, but then again at the risk of being blind to anything else that seems unrelated! Personally, I like (and follow) this advice but I also try to keep an eye on unrelated things that are interesting to me! At the end of the day, curiosity is always the best guide β as Paul Graham says.
So, my advice for young people is: don't overplan.
You never know what opportunities are going to come up.
I planned to stay at Allen & Company my whole life. It was my place.
But, being open to possibilities, being open to opportunities⦠and then when you get that opportunity⦠going all in!
[So] donβt hedge. If you're going to be in something, go all in.
[Zoya Akhtar]: Do you usually have a plan B?
[Jeff Bezos]: I don't have plan Bβs. I actually don't like plan B's. I find plan B's defocus you from plan A. Plan B should always be: βmake plan A work.β
"If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don't even start."
- Charles Bukowski
And do what's required of you, and then like 50% more! Like⦠blow people away!
"The best way to get what you want is to deserve it."
- Charlie Munger
And then, you know, tomorrow maybe something else comes up, and you'll get there, but while you're in, you go all in. But at the same time, keep your eyes open, because you never know.
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βοΈ New Essay
I recently co-authored (with Brian David Crane) a new essay in which we explored the reasons for why most people prioritize winning arguments over winning in life.
Although itβs clearly evident that we should try to win in life (rather than on words), I identified five reasons (grounded in psychology literature and wisdom from giants) for why we frequently end up doing the exact opposite!
If you are curious, click here to read the essay!
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Talk you soon!
Julio :)